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Our 25th Wedding Anniversary!!

Posted by on Mar 4, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

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Just when I thought I wouldn’t see that sight again..

Posted by on Feb 19, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

On a random day, that I had not been feeling good..my son who is busy with Law school, took time to stop and pick out some beautiful tulips for me and bringing them home to me!!  I cried

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Sights you will Never Forget

Posted by on Feb 12, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

My father passed away a few years ago, and one of my favorite memories of him always occurred on Valentines Day!  He had 3 daughters and treated us like queens on that special day!  He would drive to all of our homes and deliver flowers and candy and want to visit!!  I would watch him get out of the car with balloons flying out of the car, him trying to juggle the candy and beautiful flowers that he picked out.  I treasured that day and will never forget that sight!  True and pure LOVE.  Nothing delivered with a quick pick up the phone..he gave of his time and love for us!  I miss you...

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Blended Families

Posted by on Feb 5, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

Many parents decide to have new relationships after divorce which will affect the childrena as well.  Keep in mind a few things: Keep all parents involved. Tell your children that your new partnew will not be a rplacement parent, but another person to support them. Establish the role of step-parent as more of a friend rather than a disciplinarian and let the biological parent handle the discipline. Be aware of favoritism and dont overcopensate by giving more attention to the step children over your own children. Spend time everyday with your child.

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Sel-Esteem!!

Posted by on Jan 29, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

Body language affects how you feel, so put on a fearless face to make your self-esteem soar!  Tell yourself how amazing you are!!If you really want to succeed in life, you have to act the part.  Do a consistent job of pretending you feel capable and charismatic and you will convince everyone, even yourself, that you have got things under...

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Helping Girls with Emotions

Posted by on Jan 15, 2012 in Featured, ShapeUpMom Blog | 0 comments

Girls need to be aware that subtle behaviors such as starring, turning away and laughing, whispering, and exclusion are acts of aggression. Parents can guide girls to be more comfortable with “messy” feelings such as jealousy, competition, and anger, they will feel more free to confess these strong feelings and will stay in touch with themselves.  They also will be less likely to repress the feelings that over time simmer into rageful acts of...

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